Add metrics, protected headers and pgpkeys actuator endpoint

- metrics (optional Micrometer): per-recipient outcome/policy/reason counter,
  refused counter, key lookup timer below the cache, cache size gauge
- SendReport.RecipientOutcome gains a structured PlaintextReason
- protected headers (RFC 9788, mail.pgp.protected-headers, off by default):
  real headers inside the encrypted part, outer Subject "[...]"
- encrypting keeps the caller's Message-ID
- pgpkeys endpoint (optional Actuator): inspect policy, lookup and key
  validity per address; evict one or all cached lookups
- KeyDiscoveryCustomizer and SecureMailSenderCustomizer extension points

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_01G71TQ5jDETVwdUJxGAwaiT

mailsender-pgp-spring-boot-autoconfigure/pom.xml

@@ -26,6 +26,21 @@
             <groupId>org.springframework</groupId>
             <artifactId>spring-context-support</artifactId>
         </dependency>
+        <dependency>
+            <groupId>io.micrometer</groupId>
+            <artifactId>micrometer-core</artifactId>
+            <optional>true</optional>
+        </dependency>
+        <dependency>
+            <groupId>org.springframework.boot</groupId>
+            <artifactId>spring-boot-actuator</artifactId>
+            <optional>true</optional>
+        </dependency>
+        <dependency>
+            <groupId>org.springframework.boot</groupId>
+            <artifactId>spring-boot-actuator-autoconfigure</artifactId>
+            <optional>true</optional>
+        </dependency>
         <dependency>
             <groupId>org.springframework.boot</groupId>
             <artifactId>spring-boot-configuration-processor</artifactId>
@@ -47,6 +62,16 @@
             <artifactId>greenmail-junit5</artifactId>
             <scope>test</scope>
         </dependency>
+        <dependency>
+            <groupId>org.springframework.boot</groupId>
+            <artifactId>spring-boot-starter-webmvc</artifactId>
+            <scope>test</scope>
+        </dependency>
+        <dependency>
+            <groupId>org.springframework.boot</groupId>
+            <artifactId>spring-boot-starter-actuator</artifactId>
+            <scope>test</scope>
+        </dependency>
     </dependencies>
 
     <build>